There’s no doubt that technology has opened up multiple channels for adult sexual communication. Although the ultimate technology in the area of virtual sex is yet to hit the markets, the idea of tech-assisted sex is not far-fetched after all. Virtual sex is no longer a thing for the future as it might be commonly mistaken, or perhaps we are living in the future considering guys are already enjoying realistic hands-free sexual pleasure thanks to the availability of aiding technologies.
There have been concerns from relationship experts and sex therapists that virtual sex or rather the whole idea of tech-assisted sex and relationship is threatening real life intimacy. Admittedly, rapidly evolving technology and emerging trends in the sector have disrupted the frameworks of dating, courtships and perhaps our view on physical relationships. Even so, the great evolutions in the sector do not justify claims that virtual sex is a real threat to real intimacy. Contrary, I believe virtual sex actually complements traditional in-person sex.
The whole idea of virtual sex- with virtual sex in this case standing for any form of hands-free intimacy including cybersex, sexting and phone sex -is to have harmless fun probably over the internet which can only leave participants craving for real physical sex with a real person. Even with the advanced woks in robotics I’m still not convinced that technology can wholly substitute humans. Anyone can tell you that even after a steamy self-pleasuring session, good old-fashion pussy and dick are still irresistible.
Maybe it eases off the sexual tension in the moment, but for how long? Humans cannot live off masturbation alone. No offense to engineers and creative experts in the adult sex toys industry, they’ve done a wonderful job developing aids that offer great sexual pleasure- but they are no match to a good dick making its way to the bottom of an itchy pussy craving a good fuck. One can argue that a battery-operated vibrator does the trick for ladies, well, how often does the vibrator fondle your amazing breasts- perhaps reach out for a deep passionate kiss while sinking balls deep down there until you cannot help but dim your vision and float in ecstasy. When the last time that piece of dildo licked your wet pussy, sucking your clitoris skillfully before positioning you for a hardcore doggystyle!
Virtual sex can only compliment physical sex and not phase it off. Even the introverts who have found refuge in sexting and self-pleasuring still fantasize on when they will get an actual woman, munch their pussy like a cupcake then sink their tool to the balls then do it again and again. I’m convinced that it is not in the nature of humans to go solo every other night and not lust for some real human touch. Humans are social beings that even the best toys in the world can’t satisfy their animalistic sex appetite.
Don’t get it twisted, I enjoy a quick solo session in the bathroom. But sometimes I rush there to pull one off so that I can last longer in the first round with my woman. Yeah I know it’s cheating and I should be punished for it but premature ejaculation is a real thing and a bitchy thing in that case. Just when you are convinced that you can still last a few minutes the grip down there intensifies and no less in the most sensitive past of the shaft triggering an explosive torrent of sneaky little tadpoles.
Recently a friend related an incidence where virtual sex really saved his relationship. He narrated that sometime back when they were trying to work it out long-distance with her girl, he would quickly sign in to snapchat premium, get himself a sensual horny chic and have a fun in her private chat room and that was it, he would be good until her girl visits. Virtual sex is good at getting you through the dreadful dry spells if you will. I read an informal post that it’s healthy for guys to ejaculate at least 21 times in month. I can’t ascertain the science behind this theory but I’m pretty sure the average guy would masturbate to meet this target. This is where virtual sex comes in handy.
I’m sure a good number of people can attest to having sexted or face-timed with their significant other or a professional webcam model to keep a long distance relationship working. It is not for me to justify if this is ethical but I stand with my assertion that it does not in any way threaten physical sex. Guys would sext to build anticipation for real physical intimacy. I believe good sexting has something to do with elevating participants’ sex drive in some way although I’d have to collect more data to back thesis up.
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